When I work with my Life Coaching clients and teach people how to become a coach, there is one vital truth that I make SURE they understand:
Your subconscious mind wants to help, but it’s very literal. It can’t take a joke. It can’t tell the difference between phrasing and intent. It simply takes whatever your conscious mind feeds it, and works to make it real.
Because of this, it’s very important to pay attention to the way you talk about your dreams and goals.
Do you talk about how ‘someday’ you’re going to be rich? Someday you’ll find love, someday you’ll feel happy and confident, someday, someday, someday?
Here’s the problem with ‘someday’: it never, ever comes.
As long as you keep telling yourself that the life you want will begin ‘someday’, your subconscious mind will act to keep your physical reality congruent with your words.
You’ll miss opportunities that could have changed your life.
You’ll take years to accomplish what could have taken weeks or months – if you ever accomplish it at all.
Without even realizing it, you’ll act in ways that protect the status quo, because your subconscious believes that things aren’t supposed to change yet; they’re supposed to change ‘someday’.
And all of your attempts to use visualizations to get the Law of Attraction to work in your favor will actually work against you, because you attract what you focus on – which, in this case, is a dream that won’t come true until ‘someday’ arrives.
What should you do instead?
Talk about the life you want as if it’s already happening.
“I’m so happy and grateful that I’m making $10,000 a month.”
“I’m thankful for the love that is entering my life right now.”
“I’m excited that I’m working in a career I love! ”
This can seem unnatural at first. It could feel like you’re lying, and your subconscious will reject a reality that isn’t what it’s accustomed to.
But the more you get your mind accustomed to the idea that you ARE the person you want to be, and acclimate it to the reality you want to experience, the more it will accept the life you desire as being normal and right, and the more your subconscious will release its fear of change and begin to help you create the life you’ve been longing for.
Do you want to help yourself and others create your ideal lives?
Are you excited about what I just shared with you? And would you like to use this, along with many other powerful and universal truths, to help yourself and the people around you create the lives you’ve been longing for, but didn’t know how to make possible?
If so, I’d love for you to get in touch with my team and explore whether becoming a Certified Life Coach is right for you. Just scroll up and fill out the form on the right, and we’ll be in contact soon.
Here’s to the Law of Attraction working FOR you,
Mary
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